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NOH8 Campaign is a photographic silent protest created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska and partner Jeff Parshley in direct response to the passage of Proposition 8.
LET'S CELEBRATE
The state of NY recently passed the marriage bill, giving the lgbt community the right to marry in yet another state
HIV/AIDS CAMPAIGN
The goal behind these ads goes beyond promoting safe sex and getting tested, it touches on our compassionate side to not discriminate and realize this is not an individual's fight, but a social battle.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Date Night Ideas For You & The Booskie!!!
Every Gentleman/GentleWoman has to take out time to spend with his/her boo, atleast once a week- to show her/him that you care. And the time you spend does not have to cost you $3oo and some change… I mean you can spend that much- I’m sure it would be much appreciated, but you don’t have to:-)
Here are some really fun, cute, inexpensive (and kinda expensive) dates you can have with your lady or man:
1. Dinner & a Movie (blaaaah)
It’s been done, you probably already do it if you don’t then it’s a cute alternative… otherwise try to think more creatively.
2. Chinese Take-Out in the Park
Instead of doing the traditional: pack some food in a basket and head out to the park on a sunny afternoon. Try packing some really good chinese take-out and heading out to your prettiest local park one evening. You could also bring an ipod player so you both can enjoy some romantic music (perhaps a little Coltrane). Now this does sound easier than it is because you’ll have to bring a blanket and some OFF- just in case the mosquitoes come lurking.
3. Roof-top Sunrise
This is pretty cheesy and it may seem kinda unrealistic, but it’s more doable than you think. If you live in a major city this is easy because there are so many buildings that have ladders or stairs on the side that lead to the rooftop. Once on the rooftop relax, talk, really get to know each other, get completely lost in conversation about life and the future then before you know it you’ll see a beautiful sunrise. It’s really romantic and you’ll feel like you’re in a movie! If you’re worried about getting caught trespassing then go to a rooftop of one of your friend’s apartment buildings – it should give the same effect… (note: if this is planned you should atleast bring a blanket).
4. Cartoons and Junk Food
Okay this one isn’t for every chick, but for certain ones this will be really fun. Get a few seasons of The Boondocks, Family Guy, or South Park– though explicit and often time racist and derogatory these cartoons are funny as hell. While watching these shows pig out on a few of her favorite guilty pleasures maybe m&ms, doritos, papa johns and just have fun. (be sure to have plenty of bottled water to offset all the sugar and salt)
5. Salsa Lessons
This is always fun, if you haven’t done it then you need to. Google salsa clubs or salsa lessons given in your area, then setup a time to go. You could make it into a complete Latin night by taking her to a tasty Spanish restaurant after the lessons.
6. Jazz Night
Jazz nights are the best! They make you feel “grown & sexy” (yes I know that phrase is dead, lol, but it’s appropriate for this sentence). Every city has Jazz Nights- it may be at a restaurant, museum, club- just find out where and make sure you go. If you’re from Atlanta I highly recommend Jazz at the High Museum (every 3rd Friday).
7. Unique Restaurant
Everyone goes out to eat, it’s just a basic for the whole dating thing. But for your special chick switch it up by taking her to a unique restaurant. Like a house that was turned into a restaurant or a themed restaurant- just somewhere really different and new.
8. Get-a-way In the City
One of the most romantic dates is when you “get-a-way” in the city. Choose a really elegant hotel and book a room for a night. Order room service, watch movies, give each other massages and just get it on!
At the end of the day, it’s all about thinking outside the box- have fun and be sporadic! Do things that make you both happy:-)
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Growing up as a kid with a long line of West Indian heritage, music has always been deeply rooted in Ladi Shai. As a child her parents performed together in a band, so it was inevitable that music would eventually play a big part in her life. At the age of 7, Ladi Shai joined a dance group in Coconut Grove, Fl doing contemporary dance. Singing and dancing along with the BMBC Angels became a big part of her life. Her skills as a female emcee became evident at the age of 14. Her brother-in-law and now manager overheard her rapping to a Ludacris song that was on the radio and had an idea to write out 16 bars for her to rap without him telling her how it went. To his surprise it was the start of a new beginning. From that point on he began to write for her until she realized that she could truly make a career out of it and started writing for herself.
Ladi Shai became serious about her craft right around the age of 16 when she did a show with her father. She received so many compliments that day and it made her think, “I have the talent and music is my passion so why not put more than my all into it? “ she said. Since then the pencil has not been lifted from the pad.
Ladi Shai’s inspiration comes from her mother. She adds, “What I’m doing now with my music is something that she has always wanted to do but due to circumstances beyond her control she was unable to fulfill her dreams. My mom is such a wonderful woman and I just want to be able to take care of her the way she has for me. ” In the midst of aiming to be one of the biggest stars to come out of Miami, Florida Ladi Shai Has started her own label “PhaceUp ENT” and also is working on the “SUPPORT THE ARTS” Foundation for kids who don’t have the privilege to experience like she did as a kid.
Ladi Shai’s first mixtape is available for download at www.datpiff.com. Please go and check it out. Listen subscribe and comment. Check out her Music page on facebook at www.facebook.com/LadiShai. Be on the lookout for more updates follow her www.twitter.com1LadiShai!
http://soundcloud.com/phaceupent
www.revernationcom/LADISHAI
Stay tuned because this star is on the rise!
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Wednesday, June 15, 2011
ON FIYA!!!! Author, Publisher, and Ceo Girly G!!!
Girly G. the Miami Native is an Author, Publisher, and CEO of Go Hard Publishing. She is building blocks today and planting seeds for tomorrow. Go Hard Publishing offers quality street classic titles with intrigue, passion, pleasure, drama, sex appeal, street substance, raw edge, betrayal, lust, murder, mayhem, drugs, money, deception, seduction, suspense, and greed. Girly G. plans to expand the company and add more authors to the roster in the near future. An ultimate goal is to give a voice to those who have been silenced by other publishers who’ve told them their book wasn’t good enough. Go Hard Publishing symbolizes the grind truly believing in the principals of hard work and persistence to attain your goals. Go Hard Publishing is a place for authors seeking loyalty, trust, and a lucrative partnership with their publisher.
Links to where the books can be purchased
Girly G is definitely a big deal in the [lgbt] community, and an inspiration to all aspiring authors, publishers, and CEO's. We have to support our own!!! Buy her books, tell a friend! We all we got, if we don't support who will!
CONTACT
Personal Website www.gohardpublishing.com
Twitter @authorgirlyg
Rock ‘n’ Jocks x New Era – Bordeaux Bulls Fitted (RESTOCK)
For those of you who have picked up the Air Jordan Retro VII “Bordeaux” when it released back in April, but missed out on picking up the Chicago Bulls Custom “Bordeaux Perfect Match” New Era 59/50 Fitted Hat from Rock ‘n’ Jocks before they sold out, now is your last chance. Available in two possible color combinations, these custom fitteds come in extremely limited quantity and sizes, bearing the distinct tones of the classic “Bordeaux” colorway. One comes in black with a grey bill, the other comes in grey with a black bill, and both hats feature the Bulls logo in different combinations of blue wisteria, maroon, black, yellow, olive, and graphite grey. Be sure to get yours today, exclusively at Rocknjocks.com, before they’re all gone.
Nike Shox Hyperballer!
Available now via MarqueeSole is this eye-catching colorway in the Nike Shox Hyperballer. The shoes feature a sleek design, and utilize a two-toned black and red color combination, along with white on the midsole, and a matching red outsole. The shoes’ breathable upper are perfect for ballers, providing their feet with a source of ventilation. Nike’s Hyperfuse technology makes them lightweight and durable. Check out the detailed pictures below.
Mid- to Late June Gay Pride Calendar
We're in the month of June. Here's a list of cities and a few states in the U.S, along with the dates to their Pride Events. If you're in any of these areas, check out the events.
Baltimore: June 18 and 19.
Columbus (Oh): June 17 and 18
Nashville: June 18
Lancaster (Pa): June 18
Flagstaff: June 18
Denver: June 18 and 19
Louisville: June 18 and 19
Baton Rouge: June 25
Chicago: June 24 to 26
Cleveland: June 25
Houston: June 25
Knoxville (Tn): June 15 to 30
New Orleans (Official): June 24 to 26
Minneapolis: June 25 and 26
New York City: June 18 to 26
Oklahoma City: June 24 to 26
St. Louis: June 25 and 26
San Francisco: June 25 and 26
Seattle: June 25 and 26
S. Carolina: June 24 to 26
Tracy Morgan is a perplexing man.
In the past, he has made anti-gay comments in his comedy routines and his latest tirade at a Tennessee show only confirmed what many people secretly thought - he had no love for the gays. His trite apology by his publicist was also dismissed as nothing more than a PR stunt to cover his comments. So in an unusual but pleasant move, Morgan has further elaborated on his apology and even pledging to go so far as to publicly protest the Tennessee "Don't say gay bill" and to speak with gay youth groups. In a recent statement to the press, Morgan stated:
"I guess the reason I am successful is because I am so unfiltered. And sometimes as a result I say really stupid shit. The truth is if I had a gay son, I would love him just as much as if he was straight....I might have to try to love even more because I know of the difficulty that he would have in society. Of all the sicknesses, there is probably none more abusive than homophobia. My heart is committed to giving everyone the same rights that I deserve for myself. I don't care if you love the same sex as long as you have the ability to love someone. Also, you should have the right no matter who you are to protect and serve our country. I am deeply sorry for the comments I made. What I most sad about is the comments I made about kids and bullying. I would never want any young person to think that I wasn't on their side and if any young person thinks they can bully a young gay kid, come see me at 30 Rock. On the corner, I would be happy to meet you. Or Brooklyn, if you can't make it into Manhattan. When all of this set in, I realized how hurtful my words were. Not asking anyone to feel sorry for me or pity me, but I definitely don't want or need people to defend me. In my heart, I know that the words I used are indefensible. I appreciate the love from my friends and fans, but I was wrong. Period. Now, I just gotta think of some funny shit, not some shit that gets me knocked upside my head."
Well, that statement is certainly different than the canned apology his publicist produced. Is it real and from the heart? Time will tell. But if he puts his actions where his words are, then it is definitely a step in the right direction. I applaud his attempt to make it right!
