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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

WELL WELL WELL: Rapper The Game Says Be Gay, Be Proud!!!

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Rapper The Game gave an interview supporting gay people and telling closeted rappers and hip-hop performers to come out.

The Game, a 31-year-old rapper from Los Angeles, spoke to Vlad TV about the issue of gays in hip-hop. He said he has nothing against gay people, only those gays who hide their identity. "Be gay and be proud," he says at one point, adding that Beyoncé should have named her recent single "Gays (Who Rule the World)" instead of "Girls (Who Rule the World)." The rapper says those who hide in the closet can spread HIV to others they're not honest with.

The Game also indicates there are many "man fans" in hip-hop afraid to live openly and says Mister Cee, a DJ arrested for a public same-sex encounter recently, should be able to do his thing. Watch the video below.


CELEBRITY SNEAKER STALKER!!!




Wear a size 12? Kanye’s got a pair of “Infrared” 6s he won’t be needing. While his Air Yeezy 2 breakout made headlines alone, it also makes Ye a headliner in this week’s Celebrity Sneaker Stalker. “New” is a common theme in this week’s column as we see new shoes on some of our old favorites and old sneakers on some new headliners. Is it Kanye versus the field today? Decide for yourself in the voting poll and give props in the comment section.
Wiz Khalifa in the Air Jordan 4 "Black Cat"

Chris Brown in the Jordan CMFT Viz Air 13 White /Grey

LeBron James in the Nike Air Footscape Woven Motion "Black Cat"


Common in the Nike Zoom Kobe VI "Del Sol"


Wale in the Nike LeBron 8 V2 Low "Miami Night"


DJ Khaled in the Air Jordan 11 Low IE Black/Red



Lil Wayne in the Vans Authentic Red/Yellow

Joe Budden (left) in the Nike LeBron 8 V2 Low "Solar Red" and Royce da 5'9 in the Nike Air Trainer SC 2 "Infrared" 

Cassie in the Air Jordan 3 "True Blue"

Chris Brown in Maison Martin Margiela Sneakers

Dwayne Wade in the Air Jordan 5 "Wolf Grey"

Ronnie in the Nike SB Dunk High "Osaka"

Big KRIT in the Nike MS78 Black/Freshwater

Brad Pitt in the Vans OTW Bedford White/Off White

Kanye West in the Nike Air Yeezy 2 Zen Grey/Solar Red


Kevin Hart in Lanvin Sneakers

Adoption Legal in Mexico City, But Only One Couple Applies




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A year after lawmakers in Mexico City granted same-sex couples the right to adopt, just one couple has taken them up on it.
A lesbian couple has been authorized by the Mexican government to adopt, and so far they are the only ones to request permission. Jaime Lopez Vela, a leader of the group Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay, Transsexual and Transgender Agenda,told the Associated Press last year that the first case would be of girl being adopted by the lesbian partner of the child's biological mother.
Polling in the country show a potentially inhospitable atmosphere for the parents with widespread disapproval of gay adoption, according to Latin America News Dispatches. Mexico City is the only place in the country where adoption is allowed, and Mexico's Supreme Court ruled in 2010 that adoptions there must be respected elsewhere. And the slow process to adopt is, as it is almost everywhere, strewn with red tape.
The number of married couples in Mexico who might qualify to adopt isn't huge, but it's slowly growing. In August, Mexico reached its milestone 1,000th same-sex wedding. 

Approximately 85 percent of the couples were age 31 or older, according to the Associated Press. And estimates say 6% of weddings are foreigners coming the country to take advantage of marriage equality.

Is Univ. of Virginia discriminating against LGBT employees?



An insightful article from the University of Virginia’s campus daily examines the school’s policies toward LGBT employees – and finds it lacking.
Tom Christensen writes that although sexual orientation is included in the University’s equal opportunity and affirmative action statement, it provides no benefits or support to LGBT employees – and doesn’t even track sexual orientation of its employees the way it tracks race, gender and other qualities.
Though the University says it can’t give domestic partner benefits to LGBT employees under state law, Christensen notes that other universities – most notably the University of Michigan- have found ways around such laws.
The article says:
Although the University blames current Virginia codes for barring it from offering health benefits to the partners of same-sex employees, Claire Guthrie Gastañaga, a former chief deputy attorney general for the commonwealth who now runs her own consulting firm, suggests that the University does in fact have the ability to extend health benefits to same-sex partners despite the state’s current codes.
Under Virginia code 23-69, the University is defined as a corporation. Gastañaga said this definition gives the University the ability to exercise certain corporate powers, such as extending health benefits to same-sex partners. Gastañaga also noted that, while the University is subject to the control of the General Assembly and the Virginia constitution, Virginia legislators would have to pass a law that specifically prohibits the University from extending health benefits to same-sex partners to prohibit such an action.
“It’s very broad language,” Gastañaga said of Virginia’s marriage codes.
It’s worth it to read the whole thing at the Cavalier Daily.

SMH: Rights Group Reports 3 Hanged in Iran for Gay Sex


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Mock nooses are displayed as protesters 
demonstrate outside the Iranian embassy 
in west London in 2010 to draw attention 
to human rights abuses including punishments 
such as stoning and executions.

Three men were executed in Iran on Sunday for having gay sex, according to Iran Human Rights, an organization that monitors state news there.

The group noted in a blog post today that the state-run Iranian news agency, ISNA, reports that three people who were hanged had been convicted of sodomy and other crimes such as robbery. A Sharia judge is allowed to decide how to kill any man who violates the anti-sodomy article of the law.

IHR says the men were identified in the report only by initials: "M.T.", "T.T." and M. Ch." 

IHR spokesman Mahmood Amiry-Moghaddam said these were "rare cases" in which the Iranian government had put someone to death explicitly for homosexual acts. "Iranian authorities normally present such cases as rape," Amiry-Moghaddam said in a statement.

So far, IHR is the only group 
reporting these deaths.
Iran's president, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad once famously told a reporter during a news conference that, ''In Iran, we don't have homosexuals like in your country. We don't have that in our country. In Iran, we do not have this phenomenon. I don't know who's told you that we have it.''

"Seth's Law" Passes, Seeks Schools' Protection for LGBT Students

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A 13-year-old boy's suicidelast year prompted lawmakers in California to pass a law on Friday that orders schools to stop looking the other way on bullying of students for their sexual orientation.

The passage of AB 9, or "Seth's Law" after young Seth Walsh, means public schools are required to create policies for addressing incidents of bullying. They are also required to state explicitly that discrimination based on sexual orientation is not allowed. 

The law passed through the state Senate on Friday and had already been approved by the state Assembly in June, so it now heads to Gov. Jerry Brown for his signature. 

Walsh, a 13-year-old from Tehachapi, Calif., was part of what seemed like a wave of suicides in 2010. Students widely acknowledged that he had been bullied for a long time for being gay, and the federal government investigated the school for a lack of response. His death helpedprompt a national outcry for greater protections against bullying.

Wendy Walsh, Seth's mother, testified before the Senate Education Committee in support of the bill. 

"I can't bring my son back," she told lawmakers. "But the California legislature can make a difference today to protect young people across our state just like Seth who are or are thought to be lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. Schools need to take harassment and bullying seriously when parents or students tell them about it, and when they see it and hear it on the school campus."

FEATURED: Advocate interviews Kristin Chenoweth "The diminutive songstress packs a powerful vocal punch, which she uses to stand up for what she believes is right. "

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Kristin Chenoweth is not afraid of contradictions. The Tony and Emmy award winning star of stage and screen, who is probably best known to gay audiences for originating the role of Glinda in Wickedand playing alcoholic high school dropout April Rhodes on Glee, is just as comfortable talking about her Christian faith as she is speaking out for gay rights.

Last year when aNewsweek writer questioned whether openly gay actors like Chenoweth’s Promises, Promises costar Sean Hayes could convincingly play straight, the actress fired off a burning missive that labeled the piece “horrendously homophobic” and likened the writer’s comments to bullying. And in 2005 after being named singing spokesperson for a Women of Faith concert in Oklahoma City, promoters demanded her resignation after learning of her pro-gay stance — which ironically came out during an appearance on The 700 Club that upset many of her gay fans. Chenoweth refused to step down, saying if Women of Faith had a problem with her beliefs they could fire her. They did, which she referred to as the saddest moment in her professional life.

Her fourth studio album, Some Lessons Learned, is an exploration of the Oklahoma native’s southern roots, a journey that will continue with her role as Carlene Cockburn in Steel Magnolia writer Robert Harling’s upcoming ABC drama Good Christian Belles.

The Advocate: Many of the songs on your new album are about yearning for someone or something. Were you nervous about putting out something so personal?
Kristin Chenoweth: Yes and no. Every album I’ve done felt personal to me at the time, and obviously this one is about some lessons I’ve learned — both good and frustrating, and hard and wonderful. Mostly I wanted it to be full of hope and inspiration for women like me: women that have had love but maybe haven’t found that right one yet.

Did you learn any specific lessons while you were making the record?
Yeah, I always learn. I feel so lucky because every time I put out an album I learn so much. I think the lesson for me on this one was just to let it go. These guys [I worked with] were like, “Let’s throw it all away, and let’s just sing.” There’s a freeing element that happens when you do that. And I loved it. I loved living in Nashville, I loved getting together with those musicians, and songwriters.

What was it like working with the legendary Jordanaires, who sang backup for Elvis Presley and some of country music's greatest artists? 
Oh my gosh, you’re the first person to ask me that! I think it was one of the coolest moments because two of the original members of the Jordanaires were in the recording studio with me. And they were so sweet. One of them said, “I do believe this song’s a hit!” They have game. They’re team players, and I got why Elvis loved them. I was very honored to get to work with them. That was Bob Ezrin, my producer’s, idea. I was like, “We’ll never get them!” And they said yes. I couldn’t believe it.


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Diane Warren wrote many of the songs on the album. Did you learn anything from her? Man, there’s a reason she’s the number one hitmaker. She writes these melodies and makes these lyrics just mean something. Everything has a reason, and that’s what makes her so special. I was honored that she wanted me to do these songs. She gave me the confidence and faith in myself to do this album. She heard me do a track of Carrie Underwood’s for Gleecalled “Last Name,” and she said, “You’re a country artist.” I said, “I do feel that but I’m afraid I won’t be accepted.” She said, “This is part of who you are. Go for it.” She’s the one who got me into the recording studio in Nashville. I said, “I’ll do two songs and we’ll see how it goes.” And it just grew from there. So, I credit her fully for this.
The first single, “I Want Somebody (Bitch About),” is a fun and quirky song about unconditional love. What are your thoughts on the practicality of unconditional love?
I think it’s the biggest gift a parent can give a child, a friend can give a friend, and a brother can give to a sister. It’s what we all want in our lives. And I’m lucky because I had and have a family that did that for me.
Growing up in Oklahoma, you were obviously influenced by country music — what other genres did you listen to?
I was probably the freak in [her hometown of] Broken Arrow, because I loved opera. My parents played all kinds of music. I was a huge Julie Andrews fan, and I loved all the cast albums. I also listened to Beethoven and Chopin. I grew up playing classical piano, so my taste went all over the map.
You have said, “Just because I'm Christian doesn't mean I don't question things — God gave us a brain for a reason.” What would you ask people who cite Christianity as their justification for passing laws that discriminate against people?
I would ask, “What would Jesus do?” [
Laughs] It sounds so cliché and Pollyanna-ish, but I have a feeling if he were on the earth today, he wouldn’t be walking around saying, “You’re going to Hell” and “You’re wrong, you’re wrong, you’re wrong.” I think he’d be accepting and loving. I always use this as an example: What would I do if it was a sin to be short? That’s the way God made me, so what could I do? Let’s see, I could wear heels, I could tease my hair, and maybe on a good day I could be 5’1”. But the bottom line is, I’m 4’11” and that’s the way I was put together. And that’s what I believe about homosexuals. And I love, love that this has become a purpose in my life. It’s one that I didn’t ever expect. “What would Jesus do?” That’s my answer.

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How do you respond to people who think your pro-gay attitude is a contradiction to your faith?
I say, “I don’t judge you for your opinions, so please don’t judge me for mine.” I’m not out to tell people they’re wrong. I’m just here to say what I believe.
Do you think Christians get a bad rap?
Yeah, I think we do it to ourselves. But I also think there are a lot of Christians who believe like me. My family is very much like me. But I did grow up in the Bible belt — and you know what comes with that. My Grandma Chenoweth told me something when I was growing up. My [gay] best friend — I’ve talked about him many times, his name’s Denny. I asked my Grandma Chenoweth, “How can it be that he’s going to hell? I just don’t think that correct.” And she said, “Well Kris, I read the Bible like I eat fish: I take the meat, and it serves me well, but I don’t choke on the bone.”
Interesting.
It 
is interesting. And I think she was onto something. “I take the meat that serves me well, but I don’t choke on the bone.” I read my Bible and I pray and all of that — I really do. But at the same time, I don’t think being gay is a sin. Period.
A lot of people cheered last year when you responded to that Newsweek rant about Sean Hayes and openly gay actors. What kind of backlash resulted from your comments?
Most of the feedback was positive, to be honest with you. But I did read online that some people were disappointed to hear that I felt that way. And that makes me sad. But what can I tell you? I’m sorry if somebody is offended by what I say, but it’s the truth of how I feel.

What sort of gay deliciousness can we look forward to on 
Good Christian Belles?

[
Laughs] Well, you know there are always people of faith that battle this and think that it’s wrong. I’ve struggled with that. You might see that on the show. And I love that [the show’s creator] Bobby Harling is dealing with it. It makes me happy.
Last question: What’s on your iPod these days?
Oh gosh, I just love Dierks Bentley. I’m listening to him a lot. And I’m kind of in love with Lady Antebellum still. And Little Big Town. Those are my big ones right now. But I also like Eminem, so what are you gonna do? [
Laughs]


Retiring Gay Service Members Honored as DADT Repeal Looms

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Two high-profile “don’t ask, don’t tell” repeal advocates celebrated their retirement from the military during a Sunday ceremony under the spires of the U.S. Air Force Memorial in Arlington, Va.

One fought her discharge under DADT in court and won a key legal precedent that other gay service members have relied on in their own lawsuits. The other successfully blocked his impending separation under the policy and has never shied from a press opportunity to tell his story. Both have become close friends — and Rachel Maddow Show regulars — through their battles. 

The retirement ceremony of Maj. Margaret Witt and Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach was officiated by gay rights activist legend Col. Margarethe “Grethe” Cammermeyer, who was discharged from the military, sued, and later won her reinstatement in the National Guard (she retired in 1997 with full benefits and privileges). The ceremonial retirement orders for Witt and Fehrenbach came less than three weeks from the official end of “don’t ask, don’t tell” on Sept. 20. 

“There are so many ways that she has sacrificed for that greater good that we all in 18 days will come to treasure that much more, because we will know that those 65,000 gays and lesbians serving in the military will no longer have to live with that burden of, ‘I’m wondering if someone is going to out or discharge me,'” Cammermeyer said of Witt, a flight nurse who was also officially awarded the Air Medal at the ceremony (she had been simply mailed the prestigious honor following her discharge). "I commend you for all the work that you did, Margie, and appreciate so much that you were willing to take a stand.” 

Cammermeyer then turned to Witt’s retiring colleague and quipped to audience laughter, “Lt. Col. Fehrenbach is of a different ilk.” 

“His willingness to take on the Air Force,” she continued of the fighter pilot, “even though he was still in the military and had to deal with the day-to-day repercussions of that — it’s a very lonely, unsettling journey. And so he has worn the uniform as the officer and pilot and human being that he is, and said ‘Take me on.’”

Per her legal settlement, Witt will be given credit for 20 years of service and will officially retire 10 days after the repeal of DADT becomes effective. Her retirement date is scheduled for October 1st, the same day as Fehrenbach's. Fehrenbach said he invited Witt to share in the ceremony at the Air Force Memorial because her court case “was so instrumental” to his victory.

“What started out as one of the worst experiences of my life turned into absolutely one of the most amazing and rewarding experiences that anyone could have,” Witt said. “But it was difficult to know what would have been. I can’t help but think of those who had their careers cut short, and weren’t able to retire. I really reflect on that today.” 

Both honorees also paid tribute to the service member advocates and politicians who secured repeal of DADT — in particular Rep. Patrick Murphy, the former Pennsylvania congressman who was crucial to passage of the House bill. 

“He was the right man at the right time to take on this battle,” Fehrenbach said.

Photos of the ceremony below.

"We’ve waited a long time to be able to celebrate the retirement of someone who had served in the military, who was open about their homosexuality, and also who fought the system from the get-go — and won." — Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer (Ret.)

"I can say without hesitation that it was the best decision I had made in my life. And I can say that because the first thing that comes to my mind is the people that I was honored to serve alongside." — Maj. Margaret Witt on serving in the Air Force

"My mission didn’t go as planned. But plans change. Even though this was the most challenging period of my life, I wouldn’t change anything."—Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach

"Today we have honored two Airmen who have fought not just for their country in battle, but also for civil rights in a cause far greater than themselves." — Army Capt. Jonathan Hopkins, who was honorably discharged under DADT in 2010




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